Your Time is Valuable…

Hey all, As many people know I am a huge people pleaser. I have gotten better on focusing on myself and having more "me" time but I still seem to find myself putting so much energy into relationships. There is nothing wrong with making time for people but when your the one always putting the …

Adapting to Change…

Hey all! Change seems to be a new constant in my life since 2019. Change of marital status, change of location (x2 about to be 3),change of occupation and change of roommates. Here we are mid 2020 and my changing will continue, I decided to take the leap and start over somewhere new. Somewhere that …

For You…

Hey all! There is so much hate going on today , or is it that it has always been around but now people are just even more fed up than before? I for one cannot stand by anymore, I will not dine with those who chose not to see color or those who are outwardly …

Corruption is all around…

Hey all, This is something that has been on my mind way before all these riots and protest were going on. Corruption is everywhere, in every profession, in most churches ( yes I am going there), in humanity, within families etc. The truth is so much corruption is overlooked and has been for all of …

So sick of “All Lives Matter”

Hey all, As many of you who are reading this has heard about that awful encounter with Minneapolis police killing an innocent black man. Why is it that I as a white woman can go running and not fear for my life? Why can I go into the gas station and not be questioned what …

Playing Victim….

Hey all, Everyone has gone through something in there life and I would never be one to undermine that or take that away from someone. The problem comes in when a person makes up their own version of what happened or why something is the way it is. For instance without going into details, my …

The Little Things….

Hey all, They say you don't realize what you have till it's gone, these times are so strange and unreal. The simple things of a hug, a cup of coffee with a friend, food shopping without fear etc. I miss the loud family Sundays and the new tradition of Buffalo Wild Wings on Tuesday nights …

The Unknown

Hey all, It has been a while again, I don't know if you realized but since my last post; things are a bit crazy. You really never know what will happen from day to day, you can plan sure but really your plans mean nothing. As I sit here in isolation from the outside world …

Mental health is key to all…

Hey all, It has been a while, life just keeps happening and I am trying to keep up. In many of my posts I mention self care and what that means and how necessary it is to everybody; and I can't stress enough how important it is to make sure your mental health is a …

Self Sabotage turned Self Esteem

Hey all, I don't know about you but I am low on self esteem, no matter what stage of life I was at I just never had much self esteem. Lately though I started just saying little positive things like " you got this" "you are loved" "you are awesome"; now it is unknown if …