Hey all! I know it has been way too long this time. A lot has transpired since I last wrote, most importantly a lot of growth and a lot of learning! I have written in the past about how I grew up and the poor example I had as a father and it made me … Continue reading You get what you accept…
Author: lifeofcolie
Colie is one of the most important names to me because it was given to me by my nieces and nephews, Nicholle was to formal and they couldn't say aunt so Colie it became. I started this blog as a happily married woman in 2018, now in 2020 I will soon be divorced but my journey is only getting started. I share the most raw,honest, personal experiences with my readers, not only to reflect but also to reach those who may also be going through similar situations.
Time
Hey all! It keeps getting longer and longer in between my blog posts, I know. As I sit here in my new apartment I reflect on how much has changed in the past 6 months. It has been filled with an overflow of emotion, memories being made, boundaries being built and me learning to love … Continue reading Time
Doing what serves you…
Hey all! I recently listened to another episode of the podcast "Date yourself instead" and it touched on something I avoided addressing for the past six months. A Situationship is "a romantic relationship that is and remains, undefined". I knew in my last relationship it was not serving me fully, was I happy yes. Did … Continue reading Doing what serves you…
Growth
Hey all! I cannot believe it is 2023 already, I feel like it was Thanksgiving yesterday. So much has happened since I last wrote. Personal growth is probably how I would describe my journey for 2022 and it is continuing ten-fold in 2023. Sober living, owning my worth, wearing my crown, stepping into my feminine … Continue reading Growth
Self-Worth
Hey all!! It has been a minute since I have been on here, life has been moving so fast for me & so many changes. Since I have been on I moved from living with my brother, to living with my best friend, to now living and taking care of my grandmother in an apartment. … Continue reading Self-Worth
Note to self…
Guess who's back, back again Colies back tell a friend... okay I digress now Hey all! Its been a little while since I last wrote, lately I have been doing a lot of reflection and what it means to be kind to oneself. We can get so wrapped into being a certain way and feeling … Continue reading Note to self…
Transparency…
Hey all!! A lot has happened since I last wrote, I went from thinking I found the next "one" to being single all within 45 days?? Yup, that is how I roll, I fall and trust super fast. I figured as a personal blogger it is only fair to be completely open with y'all. Now … Continue reading Transparency…
To be open…
Hey all! This time it really has been a while since I wrote, I've been thinking a lot about the last two years. March is now a time in which I reflect on my life and what has happened since. I am loving my friends at work, even on the most stressful of days we … Continue reading To be open…
A Year In The Life…
Hey all! Yes I stole that from Gilmore Girls (sue me)... I saw this trend on facebook today of people taking the time to reflect on 2020 in a monthly form and I was inspired to take you through my life in 2020. Started off in one mindset and ended in a different more positive … Continue reading A Year In The Life…
One for the books…
Hey all! I love to sometimes sit and reflect on my life now and what has transpired, the good, the bad and in between. Being down here in South Carolina I often look back at the time before I moved and all that time I got to spend at my Nanny's house. While the world … Continue reading One for the books…
The Colie Chronicles 