You get what you accept…

Hey all! I know it has been way too long this time. A lot has transpired since I last wrote, most importantly a lot of growth and a lot of learning! I have written in the past about how I grew up and the poor example I had as a father and it made me …

Time

Hey all! It keeps getting longer and longer in between my blog posts, I know. As I sit here in my new apartment I reflect on how much has changed in the past 6 months. It has been filled with an overflow of emotion, memories being made, boundaries being built and me learning to love …

Doing what serves you…

Hey all! I recently listened to another episode of the podcast "Date yourself instead" and it touched on something I avoided addressing for the past six months. A Situationship is "a romantic relationship that is and remains, undefined". I knew in my last relationship it was not serving me fully, was I happy yes. Did …

Growth

Hey all! I cannot believe it is 2023 already, I feel like it was Thanksgiving yesterday. So much has happened since I last wrote. Personal growth is probably how I would describe my journey for 2022 and it is continuing ten-fold in 2023. Sober living, owning my worth, wearing my crown, stepping into my feminine …

Self-Worth

Hey all!! It has been a minute since I have been on here, life has been moving so fast for me & so many changes. Since I have been on I moved from living with my brother, to living with my best friend, to now living and taking care of my grandmother in an apartment. …

Note to self…

Guess who's back, back again Colies back tell a friend... okay I digress now Hey all! Its been a little while since I last wrote, lately I have been doing a lot of reflection and what it means to be kind to oneself. We can get so wrapped into being a certain way and feeling …

Transparency…

Hey all!! A lot has happened since I last wrote, I went from thinking I found the next "one" to being single all within 45 days?? Yup, that is how I roll, I fall and trust super fast. I figured as a personal blogger it is only fair to be completely open with y'all. Now …

To be open…

Hey all! This time it really has been a while since I wrote, I've been thinking a lot about the last two years. March is now a time in which I reflect on my life and what has happened since. I am loving my friends at work, even on the most stressful of days we …

A Year In The Life…

Hey all! Yes I stole that from Gilmore Girls (sue me)... I saw this trend on facebook today of people taking the time to reflect on 2020 in a monthly form and I was inspired to take you through my life in 2020. Started off in one mindset and ended in a different more positive …

One for the books…

Hey all! I love to sometimes sit and reflect on my life now and what has transpired, the good, the bad and in between. Being down here in South Carolina I often look back at the time before I moved and all that time I got to spend at my Nanny's house. While the world …